• Why did you start Lora DiCarlo?

    Lora DiCarlo was founded in 2017, inspired by the experience and persistence of our Founder & CEO, Lora Haddock. Our mission is to create a sexually equitable world where all genders and sexualities are met with innovative and thoughtful tools to serve on their path to pleasure. We strive to assemble diverse minds to create products that work in parity with diverse desires, preferences, and anatomy. 

  • How do I use Osé?

    Osé is designed to stimulate both the G-spot and the clitoris. To get started, insert the G-spot Massager into your vagina until it is in a comfortable position and making contact with your G-spot. Then adjust the flexible body until the Clitoral Stimulator is resting inside the labia. You can learn more about fitting your Osé by reading our Find Your Fit Guide. Always use a water-based lube; it prevents irritation and deepens pleasure. It might take some time to find your preferred placement, but have fun! Your pleasure is in your hands. 

  • How does Osé work?

    Osé stimulates both the G-spot and the clitoris simultaneously by mimicking the human mouth, tongue, and fingers. Using the button interface on the bottom of your device you can change the intensity of both the G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Osé has a flexible body which makes it possible for you to adjust the device to fit your unique anatomy.

  • What makes Osé hands-free?

    Osé is designed to be adjustable and fully customizable. The flexible body makes it possible for you to bend Osé into an angle that fits your unique anatomy. Depending on the angle that you find works best for you, there may be enough force exerted to hold Osé in place while in use. 

  • What are Lora DiCarlo products made of?

    Lora DiCarlo products are made from high quality, body-safe materials, including premium silicone and ABS plastic. Our products are also phthalate and latex-free.

  • Is my product waterproof?

    Yes! Lora DiCarlo products can be completely submerged, and are safe to use in the shower or tub. Do not charge your device while it is wet or in water.

  • How do I clean my Osé?

    Osé is waterproof making it easy to clean. Always use mild soap and water, or a silicone-safe cleanser both before and after each use. Dry Osé with a lint-free cloth. 

  • How do I fit Osé to both my clitoris and G-spot simultaneously?

    We recommend finding the general location of your G-spot first (either with your fingers or Osé) and then adjusting the flexible body until Osé is positioned correctly. Then bend the flexible body until you are able to fit the Clitoral Mouth between your outer labia and over your clitoris. It's normal to need to do more than one readjustment; it might take some time to find the position you prefer. You can learn more about finding your fit by reading our Find Your Fit Guide. 

  • What is the recommended position for using Osé?

    Osé was designed based on research that shows the most comfortable position for masturbation is lying on your back.

  • I just received my Onda, how do I get started?

    We're excited for you to begin exploring your unique capacity for pleasure. To get started, we recommend charging Onda for at least 1 hour (though it should arrive charged). Use this time to prepare yourself for the experience—much like any sexual experience, your time with your Onda will be greatly enhanced if you are “in the mood”, just like with a sexual partner. When using Onda, we recommend that you always use a water-based lubricant; doing so reduces irritation and enhances the overall experience. Once Onda is charged, insert Onda into your vagina—be sure to have the G-Spot Massager turned off before insertion! Then, you can explore what the best position is in order for you to be able to stimulate your G-Spot. Have fun exploring your body! It might take some time to figure out what placement you prefer, but have fun! Your pleasure is in your hands! If you'd like more information on how to use Onda, our User Guide is a great resource.

  • Onda Product Specifications

    Overall product size: 193mm x 52mm x 56mm

    Insertable length: 120mm

    Insertable width: 39mm

    Weight: 233g

    Battery type: Lithium Polymer

  • Do I need to use lube?

    We recommend always using lube. Lube helps prevent irritation and can also intensify the sensations. 

  • Do the Sexual Wellness Coaching sessions have to be via video conference? Can I have only audio conference?

    You're empowered with voice and choice during these sessions, and always. You're welcome to use audio only and keep the camera turned off if that feels safer for you.

  • Can we have a Sexual Wellness partner session to talk about partner play?

    Yes, but it works best to have at least one solo session first. It's best to do these sessions solo and share them, if you choose, with a partner afterwards. This is because the dynamic between you and your partner can make it harder to dive into yourself. In partnership, there's more to pay attention to - how is the other person feeling, what are they thinking, what should or shouldn't I say, etc. Let's use this session to focus on you.

  • What meeting platform is used during a Sexual Wellness session?

    Zoom is our video conference platform.

  • Why work with a Sexual Wellness coach?

    Some of us grew up without any real information on sex, about our bodies and how things work. Even worse, most of us received sex-negative, shame and guilt inducing messages about our sexual desires - “Good girls don’t do x", our bodies “Don’t eat x, you’ll get fat” , and our fantasies “That’s weird, gross, not normal”, resulting in negative early experiences. A Sexual Wellness coach will help you feel more pleasure; empowering you with voice and choice around your sexuality. Because your sexuality is an important part of overall health and wellness, and because you are deserving of pleasure.

  • Is Sexual Wellness coaching for women only?

    All people, regardless of shape, size, gender and orientation are deserving of a compassionate, body-based approach to sexual health & wellness. We’re happy to meet you wherever you are on this journey towards your sexual self!

  • Does online Sexual Wellness coaching really work?

    Yes, and surprisingly well! Sexual pleasure is increased and pleasure limitations decreased when we actively practice awakening, deepening and nourishing our sexual selves. Sexual Wellness Coaching coaching is a safe place to ask the questions you’ve been afraid to ask, to get help ditching guilt and shame, to gain sexual confidence, to learn to ask for and get what you want and to finally learn how to have the Sex Life you deserve.

  • What's the purpose of a Sexual Wellness Intake form?

    Both to give the Sexual Wellness coach an idea of what you'd like to focus on, and to help you crystallize your intentions. Your intentions will guide the sessions and what's working well for you and what isn't are often keys to unlocking your best sexual self.

  • What does it take to be a Certified Sexual Wellness coach? I mean, can’t anyone say they’re a coach?

    Our coaches are passionate about helping people expand their sexuality and heal with pleasure. While our certification and training varies, each of us has professional education and certification as a sex coach, and each of us belongs to a professional board. We have taken an ethical pledge to focus on our client’s wellbeing, to do no harm, and to support our client’s experience of embodiment and personal growth through education and enthusiastic consent. We pledge to offer judgment-free, safe spaces, compassionate, body-based education and to offer loving kindness in a professional manner.

  • Can my partner join my Sexual Wellness coaching session?

    It's best to do these sessions solo and share them, if you choose, with a partner afterwards. This is because the dynamic between you and your partner can make it harder to dive into yourself. In partnership, there's more to pay attention to - how is the other person feeling, what are they thinking, what should or shouldn't I say, etc. Let's use this session to focus on you.

  • What should I expect in a Sexual Wellness coaching session?

    Some of us grew up without any real information about our bodies, on sex, about our bodies and how things work. Even worse, most of us received sex-negative, shame-based and guilt inducing messages about our sexual desires, our bodies, and our fantasies, resulting in negative early experiences. Our Certified Sexual Wellness coach will help empower you with voice and choice around your sexuality.

  • How loud is Onda?

    Because Onda doesn’t rely on vibration, but rather complex microrobotics the G-spot massager sounds different than other toys. We've tested and compared Onda to other products on the market, and the decibels produced are no greater than these. The loudest it gets is the same volume as a normal conversation.

  • Does Onda have a warranty?

    Onda comes with a 1-year limited manufacturer warranty that covers defects due to faulty workmanship or materials. Due to the intimate nature of our product, we do not offer refunds for used products that are not warranty issues.

  • How long does Onda's battery last?

    On a full charge, Onda will last for 45 minutes to 1 hour of use.

  • Do you have any coupon codes?

    We do not offer any coupon codes or discounts at this time. 

  • Do you offer any discounts?

    We do not offer any coupon codes or discounts at this time. 

  • What lube should I use?

    Only use water-based lube and personal moisturizers with Osé. Formulas that are oil or silicone-based can damage the device. 

  • How do I find my G-spot?

    You (or a partner) can explore your G-spot by laying on your back and inserting your finger(s) into your vagina with your palm facing up. Your G-spot is located about 1 inch inside the vagina and is positioned on the front vaginal wall. It often feels more rigid and firmer than the surrounding tissue. You can learn more about the G-spot in the article in our Health & Wellness Guide

  • How do I fit Osé to my clitoris?

    You can fit Osé to your clitoris by positioning the clitoral mouth between the outer labia and over the glans clitoris. You can learn more about the clitoris by visiting our article dedicated to this powerhouse of pleasure. You can learn more about finding your fit by visiting our User Guide.

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